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Author Topic: Moraly, What's worse: Pornography or Prostitution?  (Read 5168 times)
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« Reply #90 on: March 16, 2008, 06:09:24 AM »


When I was like 11 or 12, I got these big lectures over how I mustn't wank,



How ironic that I read this post today, being Palm Sunday.


I must say Leo that you went to a more progressive school than I did. I can't say I remember that topic being covered at my school.



LOL!  Cheesy But no, wanking isn't one of the subjects at my school, I was just warned by the house master that doing it too much was bad for me. I dunno how he even knew that I did it.  Huh?
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« Reply #91 on: March 16, 2008, 08:10:52 AM »

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« Reply #92 on: March 20, 2008, 04:10:39 PM »

Freddy, this is an interesting question.

Which is worse? 

I've seen men become addicted to porn and have to join support groups to overcome the addiction, similar to alcholism.  It is not innocent fun.  Its also pervasive, cheap or free and easy.  There is so much that is available for free on the net that I've always wondered how porn is the biggest money maker.  Then I realize that it5s the addiction factor.  Paying to look and look while trying to see something new.  Same as a junkie or an alchoholic.  Not only is it evil, its easy to get sucked into.

Prostitution is not really considered addictive and has long been touted as a victimless crime.  However, its debasing and dehumanizing to the prostitutes.  I'm reminded of the scene from the movie "Boyz in the Hood" where a strung out, crack addicted woman offers felatio for just enogh cash for one more hit of crack.   Prostitution also appears to be a contributing factor in crime rates. 

Of course, there are different levels of prostitution, I'm fairly sure that the hookers that were servicing Elliott Spitzer, former governor of New York, were not low level street whores.  However, they were performing the same act for a much higher fee.  (I'm surprised that Spitzer couldn't satisfy his urges andy other way.  I mean, how much of a problem could it have been for a milionaire governor to get a legitimate date?) 

Trying to decide which is worse is like trying to decide whether you would rather be bitten by a rabid dog or a rattlesnake.  You are in a world of hurt either way.

By the way, I do believe that each is morally wrong.  Its aslo interesting that a mullah, a rabbi, a priest and a preacher would all agree that both are evil.
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« Reply #93 on: March 21, 2008, 11:59:42 AM »

Freddy, this is an interesting question.

Which is worse? 

I've seen men become addicted to porn and have to join support groups to overcome the addiction, similar to alcholism.  It is not innocent fun.  Its also pervasive, cheap or free and easy.  There is so much that is available for free on the net that I've always wondered how porn is the biggest money maker.  Then I realize that it5s the addiction factor.  Paying to look and look while trying to see something new.  Same as a junkie or an alchoholic.  Not only is it evil, its easy to get sucked into.

You haven't established that it is in any sense evil, just that some people get addicted (I'd like to see someone provide figures for this BTW).

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Prostitution is not really considered addictive and has long been touted as a victimless crime.  However, its debasing and dehumanizing to the prostitutes.  I'm reminded of the scene from the movie "Boyz in the Hood" where a strung out, crack addicted woman offers felatio for just enogh cash for one more hit of crack.

Picking up other people's trash is also debasing and degrading but people do it, usually because they have no choice (economic circumstances). If one is not immoral then why is the other?

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Prostitution also appears to be a contributing factor in crime rates. 

That is probably due to the fact that criminals have a state-provided monopoly in this area - not because paying for sex makes you go out and stab people, or anything like that.

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Of course, there are different levels of prostitution, I'm fairly sure that the hookers that were servicing Elliott Spitzer, former governor of New York, were not low level street whores.  However, they were performing the same act for a much higher fee.  (I'm surprised that Spitzer couldn't satisfy his urges andy other way.  I mean, how much of a problem could it have been for a milionaire governor to get a legitimate date?) 

Calling them whores contributes to the dehumanising that you complained about above.

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Trying to decide which is worse is like trying to decide whether you would rather be bitten by a rabid dog or a rattlesnake.  You are in a world of hurt either way.

I couldn't disagree more.

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By the way, I do believe that each is morally wrong.  Its aslo interesting that a mullah, a rabbi, a priest and a preacher would all agree that both are evil.

No it's not. Those three would also agree that masturbation, birth control, premarital sex, homosexuality etc. are wrong. Religions are sexually repressive - that is nothing new, or interesting.
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« Reply #94 on: March 21, 2008, 01:41:38 PM »

Do you think religious people are the only ones who think "masturbation, birth control, premarital sex, homosexuality etc" are wrong?

You have data to support that?
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« Reply #95 on: March 21, 2008, 01:44:42 PM »

Do you think religious people are the only ones who think "masturbation, birth control, premarital sex, homosexuality etc" are wrong?

You have data to support that?

I never claimed anything of the sort.
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« Reply #96 on: March 21, 2008, 02:32:58 PM »

Nice to know....although you could have added rape, murder, drunk driving, prostitution, drug abuse, etc, to the list also.....
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« Reply #97 on: March 21, 2008, 03:22:24 PM »

Freddy, this is an interesting question.

Which is worse? 

I've seen men become addicted to porn and have to join support groups to overcome the addiction, similar to alcholism.  It is not innocent fun.  Its also pervasive, cheap or free and easy.  There is so much that is available for free on the net that I've always wondered how porn is the biggest money maker.  Then I realize that it5s the addiction factor.  Paying to look and look while trying to see something new.  Same as a junkie or an alchoholic.  Not only is it evil, its easy to get sucked into.

You haven't established that it is in any sense evil, just that some people get addicted (I'd like to see someone provide figures for this BTW).

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Prostitution is not really considered addictive and has long been touted as a victimless crime.  However, its debasing and dehumanizing to the prostitutes.  I'm reminded of the scene from the movie "Boyz in the Hood" where a strung out, crack addicted woman offers felatio for just enogh cash for one more hit of crack.

Picking up other people's trash is also debasing and degrading but people do it, usually because they have no choice (economic circumstances). If one is not immoral then why is the other?

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Prostitution also appears to be a contributing factor in crime rates. 

That is probably due to the fact that criminals have a state-provided monopoly in this area - not because paying for sex makes you go out and stab people, or anything like that.

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Of course, there are different levels of prostitution, I'm fairly sure that the hookers that were servicing Elliott Spitzer, former governor of New York, were not low level street whores.  However, they were performing the same act for a much higher fee.  (I'm surprised that Spitzer couldn't satisfy his urges andy other way.  I mean, how much of a problem could it have been for a milionaire governor to get a legitimate date?) 

Calling them whores contributes to the dehumanising that you complained about above.

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Trying to decide which is worse is like trying to decide whether you would rather be bitten by a rabid dog or a rattlesnake.  You are in a world of hurt either way.

I couldn't disagree more.

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By the way, I do believe that each is morally wrong.  Its aslo interesting that a mullah, a rabbi, a priest and a preacher would all agree that both are evil.

No it's not. Those three would also agree that masturbation, birth control, premarital sex, homosexuality etc. are wrong. Religions are sexually repressive - that is nothing new, or interesting.

IamMe:  WOW!  Do we see things from the opposite perspective or what?

It never occurred to me that I would have to prove that porn is bad because the original question was, "Morally, What's worse..." However, if evil is too strong a word, I'm fine with terrible, bad, horrible or a synonym of your choice.  By the way, I've never heard of a good addiction. 

As far as picking up other people's trash is concerned, thats called a job.  I've done it.  Mopped floors, cleaned buildings, loaded trucks and cut grass for money, too.  Never felt like I was prostitutiong myself because it was honest work that I agreed to do.  My dignity was never at issue.  I worked hard and either got promoted or got a better job.  Its amazing how hard work and low pay can motivate you to find something better.

Crime rates are higher where prostitution is rampant.  If you don't believe me, Google it or simply go hang out with the prostitutes in your town.  Also, prostitutes tend to become drug addicts, some would argue to escape the pain of their lives.  Saying that the state provides a monoply because a crime is illegal is a perspective that i've never heard of before.  Interesting concept.

The term street whore is perjorative.  Point taken.

Your last two pointss show how opposite we look at things.  My moral compass is from the judeo/christian ethic.  It allows me to make a determination about right and wrong.  The same ethic also requires that I love my fellow man and not pass judgement on him.  Its kind of hard to judge someone else for being wrong when you look in the spiritual mirror and see your own shortcommings.

Please, don't get the idea that I'm being judgemental, I'm not.  For example, I do not see any excuse for whiskey to be legal and marijuana not to be.  Neither do I believe that Islam, Hinduism or Bhuddism are inherently evil. 

I gather that you do not like religion.  My point was that people who represent different religious backgrounds could all agree that both pornography and prostitution are wrong. 

So, a question for you:  Is either pornography or prostitution wrong? 

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« Reply #98 on: March 22, 2008, 07:31:38 AM »

Do you think religious people are the only ones who think "masturbation, birth control, premarital sex, homosexuality etc" are wrong?

You have data to support that?

Do you think masturbation and premarital sex are wrong? I don't know enough about stuff like abortion and homosexuality, but I would seriously doubt there are many non-religious people who might consider a bit of a bonk in the back of a car, or a quick wank, to be morally repugnant. Like who gets hurt by either 'crime'?  Grin
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« Reply #99 on: March 22, 2008, 12:55:53 PM »

Show me a teenage boy who says he doesn't marturbate and I will show you one who is lying.  I don't think its morally repugnant to do so.  But, the issue is porn, not masturbation. 

Pre-martial sex is another issue.  Are we talking consenting adults?  They are responsible for their own actions.  If two consenting adults want to have ago, let them have at it.  Is it immoral?  Yes.  Will they stop just because I think they should?  No.  Those folks are just looking for something to make them happy, to fill a void in their lives with something.  Sex fo the sake of sex will not do that.  Let me tell you, the best sex you will ever have is with the person you are deeply in love with and have been with for many years.

However, again, we are talking about prostitution, not consentual, pre-marital sex. 
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« Reply #100 on: March 22, 2008, 01:32:59 PM »

Someone asked for stats on porn.  These are pretty revealing of societal behaviours but also of the very profitable reasons for the existence of the porn industry:

http://internet-filter-review.toptenreviews.com/internet-pornography-statistics.html


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« Reply #101 on: March 22, 2008, 02:53:52 PM »

Someone asked for stats on porn.  These are pretty revealing of societal behaviours but also of the very profitable reasons for the existence of the porn industry:
http://internet-filter-review.toptenreviews.com/internet-pornography-statistics.html
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Thanks for this very useful link.

It's certainly easier to make big money on porn than on prostitution.

The second reason is that, most often, pimping whores is a crime but producing porn movie is not.

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Addiction is problem #1.
Problem #2 is modification of relational behavior.
This second is much less difficult to track and estimate. How does porn affects our society? We don't know but it certainly does given the impressive number of men and barely less impressive number of women who use it.

It would be interresting to compare these numbers with those of prostitution: How many men (women) paid for sex (regularly, occasionaly), is there an addiction, etc...
Viv., any link?

Prostitution is degradating for those who sell themselves but it can also be for those who use it, like porn. Sometimes it's for the man just a more sophisticated form of masturbation rather than a sexual intercourse. You have to know what these girls are offering as 'service' to understand what I mean.

For the rich guys, they can afford obviousely better services. There is a reason why whealthy men use whores rather than dating: time.
Dating suppose an incredible waste of time when the goal is basicaly sex. Every man would favor a  free, non venal, relationship, but not at the expense of hours everyday of uncertainties, waits or sterile entertainments. On top of that it does still cost money.

One paradox with prostitution is less degradating (for both the girl and the client) when there are more girls for less clients. That implies that more girls go into prostitution and/or that less men make use of it.

With Jerycoacoara, we have seen that posing in a porn movie can be heavier ofconsequence than making sex far from cameras.
Given the number of porn movies produced, we can safely say that the pron industry created another form of prostitution.

IMO, the widespread and increasing distribution of hardcore porn is worse than a prostitution ring with the nuance that some form of porn are better and some form of prostitution are worse.

I think men like erotism and that erotism is not a bad thing. Women like erotism too, but in a way which demands less nudity and acts by real models. But porn is not erotism, it's another phenomenon.
Porn is something sort of sick, even often void of erotism.
I'm against prohibiting pornography, but it should be much less accessible than it is right now.
The number of under 16 who faced unwanted porn is unacceptable.



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« Reply #102 on: March 22, 2008, 08:06:36 PM »

Show me a teenage boy who says he doesn't marturbate and I will show you one who is lying.  I don't think its morally repugnant to do so.  But, the issue is porn, not masturbation. 

Pre-martial sex is another issue.  Are we talking consenting adults?  They are responsible for their own actions.  If two consenting adults want to have ago, let them have at it.  Is it immoral?  Yes.  Will they stop just because I think they should?  No.  Those folks are just looking for something to make them happy, to fill a void in their lives with something.  Sex fo the sake of sex will not do that.  Let me tell you, the best sex you will ever have is with the person you are deeply in love with and have been with for many years.

However, again, we are talking about prostitution, not consentual, pre-marital sex. 


But prostitution very well may be consensual, pre-marital sex in the case of an unmarried man seeing a prostitute and both agreeing on the price, etc.

When asking the question "Is prostitution wrong", what we're asking (at least as I understand it) is 'Is the money hand off wrong'?

I wouldn't agree with the sentiment that pre-marital sex is 'wrong'. Monogamy is safer (and better in many ways IMO) than casual sex. This one comes down to a matter of opinion though.




I'm still curious about the idea I posted earlier. In the case of a married man, is it any 'better' (or not as wrong) for him to lie to and cheat on his wife without pulling out his wallet?
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« Reply #103 on: March 23, 2008, 07:43:33 AM »

Show me a teenage boy who says he doesn't marturbate and I will show you one who is lying.  I don't think its morally repugnant to do so.  But, the issue is porn, not masturbation. 

Pre-martial sex is another issue.  Are we talking consenting adults?  They are responsible for their own actions.  If two consenting adults want to have ago, let them have at it.  Is it immoral?  Yes.  Will they stop just because I think they should?  No.  Those folks are just looking for something to make them happy, to fill a void in their lives with something.  Sex fo the sake of sex will not do that.  Let me tell you, the best sex you will ever have is with the person you are deeply in love with and have been with for many years.

However, again, we are talking about prostitution, not consentual, pre-marital sex. 

Well, I'm certainly not going to say that I never do that, but I only mentioned masturbation and pre-marital sex coz Patton wrote
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« Reply #104 on: March 23, 2008, 11:06:44 AM »

But prostitution very well may be consensual, pre-marital sex in the case of an unmarried man seeing a prostitute and both agreeing on the price, etc.

When asking the question "Is prostitution wrong", what we're asking (at least as I understand it) is 'Is the money hand off wrong'?

I wouldn't agree with the sentiment that pre-marital sex is 'wrong'. Monogamy is safer (and better in many ways IMO) than casual sex. This one comes down to a matter of opinion though.

I'm still curious about the idea I posted earlier. In the case of a married man, is it any 'better' (or not as wrong) for him to lie to and cheat on his wife without pulling out his wallet?

Two different issues... is it not?  Prostitution is a business transaction and the woman has no interest in a relationship with the man, so it will not threaten to impact on the marriage in the long term...unless it affects how the woman feels about her husband, to know he has done such a low-class thing.

For a woman, maybe most women would be less upset to find the husband had been with a prostitute.  For example, if she were unable to ...oblige.  Or he was away on business, w/e, there may be occasions when it might be..acceptable if not desirable? 

Preferable to cheating, because there is more risk of intereference in the marriage if he is emotionally engaged with another woman.  Emotions are not involved and emotions are important to women so it is not such a betrayal, I think...

I don't think in asking "Is prostitution wrong?" you are asking only if the money hand-off is wrong.  There is a whole can of worms unaddressed, for example, how many women are happy to be prostituting?  What pressures are they under to do that, who is watching from across the street and waiting to feed her drug habit and take her money, is it right in any case to treat a human being so impersonally?  Much more than just money...
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