This thread is great.
Is there anybody here who actually likes the opposite sex? Bueller? Bueller?
Appluad to the
Big
Beuatiful
Woman
Racheal, speaking from my experiences, its just not worth the hassle. You say a guy needs to impress you, but then what? He goes back to being just a guy? Then you dump him? Its just a big vicious circle which forces the man to bigger and bigger, stupider and stupider actions in the pathetic attempt to impress you like some circus clown with energizer batteries. Whats the point?
It is my experience that women do NOT want a kind, considerate, compassionate man, they want an asshole. Someone who they can "change".
You know what every woman I have EVER had a serious relationship with has said? "You are such an incredible guy, someday some lady is going to be incredibly lucky to have you. But,,,,,,,(Insert lame ass excuse for break up here)" Women today are so fucked up in the head they don't know how to handle a guy who makes them their princess. They get scared by love but will gladly take apathy or even contempt.
Maybe there IS that special woman just meant for me but at this point she better have my number already or be willing to ask for it because I for one am DONE with the show. Elvis has LEFT the building and I am not going to be the trained dancing bear for any woman ever again. I'd rather jack off.
This does not mean I swear off interacting with women but I am damn sure not going to try to get close to any of them.
I will be moderately civil to the EX if she shows up someplace I am or vise verse, but I will not seek her out and I damned sure am not looking for my NEXT EX.
You know Opmod..I took some time to think about it. And maybe you and Ahk are right. Maybe I am just being too old fashioned? My girlfriends and I plan to go out tonight, and I think I am going to try it the other way around and approach a man that I think is nice. Thanks for the advice.